Mature dominatrix & BDSM LIFE COACH

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Portsmouth - Petersfield - Hampshire - England
Mistress Femme Fatale is an Elite Professional Dominatrix offering bespoke sessions near Portsmouth and Petersfield. From intense dungeon play to sensual outdoor experiences, all activities are tailored and consensual.
BDSM LIFE COACH

I am Mistress Femme Fatale, a mature Elite yet Very Strong Dominatrix

I have been a Mistress for many years and have many submissives under my feet. Some have been disobedient but all got punished. You may recognise me from my TV documentary on Channel5 & 5Star "Adults Only : Meet The S3x Sl@ves".

I am harsh but kind, I am demanding but generous I am your Goddess, you will become addicted to me. I expect obedience, loyalty and tributes, I do not do sessions without a tribute so bear that in mind puppies.

My sessions are held in Portsmouth either in a playroom/domestic setting or in The Frisson a more sensual room with an exquisite private outdoor space north of Petersfield. And if you feel adventurous lets have a wood session perfect for public humiliation.

I also travel mainly to the UK, France, USA and many other countries only if my travel expenses & tribute are covered in advance.

Kinks / Fetishes

I am at my happiest with a whip in my hand or a some sub's balls under my boots. I particularly enjoy ball b#sting and putting them into chastity. I have many kinks including financial domination, CBT, feet worshipping, ball busting, humiliation, clothed face sitting (as part of smothering), whipping, spanking, and many more...All consensual and boundaries respected. Feel free to view my full but non exhaustive list of what I offer here https://www.mistressfemmefatale.com/sessions/

CECILLIA FEB24

Even before my first encounter with Mistress in person I was entranced by Her texts and voice note. How carefully She checked my kinks before accepting me into Her presence. And in response, how carefully I prepped myself before attending Her - trimming pubic hair as She instructed, and shaving chest and armpits to feel more feminine.

From the moment I entered Her domain She took command, and after giving me my initial instruction She permitted me to ascend to the action floor, where She soon issued the instruction I had been aching for and dreading - "Go out, take off your clothes, and come back when you are naked".

But how free I felt as I stood before Her. In Her mercy She did not prolong the inspection - perhaps next time She may check Her new acquisition more closely, by sight and touch, checking that my preparations are adequate.

And then my transformation, as Mistress dressed me ready for the next phase. Once made into a prettified plaything for Her, She removed my glasses which only increased my feelings of vulnerability and loss of control.

As Mistress took me through my paces, She showed great consideration of my novice status. She did not comment on the times that I clumsily bumped into Her, though I suspect that in a stricter mood She would have punished that disrespect. And the punishments that She did mete out were moderated out of consideration to my inexperience.

However, imagine my delight when Mistress finally dismissed me with a "you did well". Such generosity to a bumbling first-timer !

I have thought about this experience a lot, and wonder if I could have done better. Perhaps I was too passive, not giving Mistress sufficient response. Did I look away too much, avoiding Her controlling gaze ? Should I have said something as She checked my nipples ? Perhaps I should have asked Her what attachments She was considering. And when She asked "sissy or whore ?", I could have asked Her what each would entail rather than, flustered, just picking sissy. I wonder how the session would have played out with the other choice ?

ALI47 FEB24

I met Mistress Femme Fatale last week and she didn’t disappoint.Her premises are perfect and easy to find.As soon as I entered she had me on my knees.I was pretty nervous so bowed my head so hadn’t really had chance to look at her properly but when I did she took my breath away.Nothing I’d seen on any clip or picture could have prepared me.She was absolutely stunning and dressed perfectly for what I was hoping for,especially her boots which I absolutely adored.Lucky for me the first thing she did was let me worship them.I could have spent days doing that.Mistress had obviously listened and read everything we had discussed beforehand which was comforting and made the session all the better.She then gave me my first sissy training experience which was so good,I felt really humiliated and emasculated.She then gave me a good beating with various implements which meant that I really felt it,and thought of her for ages afterwards whenever I sat down.I really can’t speak highly enough of the session,Mistress is a true Queen and my time with her couldn’t have been better.Can’t wait to see her again.

BADERA20 – FEB25

Today I met mistress femmefatale I was cery lucky it was great session one of my best sessions in life!!

MIKED62 SEP24

I requested a two section role play scenario, one where I was having to see and be punished by the headmistress and the other as she advised my Auntie who I am staying with who disciplines me when home.,A great recall or the detail I asked for and great acting of both roles.
My session was detailed and the strict headmistress and angry aunts where acted very well with an impressive recall of the detail which are important to me .

SISSY FIFI NOV24

I had another wonderful two hour session with Mistress a few weeks ago. Upon arrival I assumed my position on all fours. Mistress was wearing a short black PVC dress and black thigh-high boots. Mistress knows PVC is something I love and I was very fortunate Mistress treated me to this view. I was then told to crawl on all fours upstairs behind Mistress. I was told not to look up her dress. I couldn't resist though - her bottom looked amazing in the thing she had on. She noticed this and said I would pay for this indiscretion.

I was then dressed in red panties, a red bra, and holdups with a pink laced trim. A red mesh dress was added to finish off the look. It felt amazing, and I could feel myself twitching in the panties. Mistress added a pair of nipple clamps and tucked them in my bra for safe keeping.

The session was focussed around an activity we both enjoy - Ballbusting. We set a target of 100+ kicks in my balls for the session. Mistress administered these in batches of 10 - her black boots hurt a lot, and Mistress varied the strength of the kicks. She interspersed the batches of 10's with boot worship, and tie and tease.

I managed to take 101 kicks. Mistress said she was very pleased with this.

I thoroughly enjoyed the session, as Mistress loves to kick slaves in the balls.

New to the scene?

If you are new discovering your kinks and fetishes, I am the right Dominatrix for you, you may find my maturity and softer approach more appealing but always bear in mind your Mistress will push your limits.

As seen on TV on 5STAR & CHANNEL 5

"ADULTS ONLY MEET THE SEX SLAVES"

You can watch your Mistress over and over again online! 🤩

The 5STAR, BDSM documentary was on TV many times & is  going to be available for many moons to come!

Where to find your Mistress

PORTSMOUTH - PETERSFIELD - United Kingdom

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The Frisson Sensual Playroom
Near Petersfield
NOW OPEN

Featuring:

Sensual Room for indulgence & photoshoot/content creation

A Lush Outdoor space for some play time under the sky or photoshoot

Naughty Dog shed

Booking required with 50% deposit

+44 7488391481

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