Mature dominatrix & BDSM LIFE COACH

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Portsmouth - Petersfield - Hampshire - England
Mistress Femme Fatale is an Elite Professional Dominatrix offering bespoke sessions near Portsmouth and Petersfield. From intense dungeon play to sensual outdoor experiences, all activities are tailored and consensual.
BDSM LIFE COACH

I am Mistress Femme Fatale, a mature Elite yet Very Strong Dominatrix

I have been a Mistress for many years and have many submissives under my feet. Some have been disobedient but all got punished. You may recognise me from my TV documentary on Channel5 & 5Star "Adults Only : Meet The S3x Sl@ves".

I am harsh but kind, I am demanding but generous I am your Goddess, you will become addicted to me. I expect obedience, loyalty and tributes, I do not do sessions without a tribute so bear that in mind puppies.

My sessions are held in Portsmouth either in a playroom/domestic setting or in The Frisson a more sensual room with an exquisite private outdoor space north of Petersfield. And if you feel adventurous lets have a wood session perfect for public humiliation.

I also travel mainly to the UK, France, USA and many other countries only if my travel expenses & tribute are covered in advance.

Kinks / Fetishes

I am at my happiest with a whip in my hand or a some sub's balls under my boots. I particularly enjoy ball b#sting and putting them into chastity. I have many kinks including financial domination, CBT, feet worshipping, ball busting, humiliation, clothed face sitting (as part of smothering), whipping, spanking, and many more...All consensual and boundaries respected. Feel free to view my full but non exhaustive list of what I offer here https://www.mistressfemmefatale.com/sessions/

CECILLIA FEB24

Even before my first encounter with Mistress in person I was entranced by Her texts and voice note. How carefully She checked my kinks before accepting me into Her presence. And in response, how carefully I prepped myself before attending Her - trimming pubic hair as She instructed, and shaving chest and armpits to feel more feminine.

From the moment I entered Her domain She took command, and after giving me my initial instruction She permitted me to ascend to the action floor, where She soon issued the instruction I had been aching for and dreading - "Go out, take off your clothes, and come back when you are naked".

But how free I felt as I stood before Her. In Her mercy She did not prolong the inspection - perhaps next time She may check Her new acquisition more closely, by sight and touch, checking that my preparations are adequate.

And then my transformation, as Mistress dressed me ready for the next phase. Once made into a prettified plaything for Her, She removed my glasses which only increased my feelings of vulnerability and loss of control.

As Mistress took me through my paces, She showed great consideration of my novice status. She did not comment on the times that I clumsily bumped into Her, though I suspect that in a stricter mood She would have punished that disrespect. And the punishments that She did mete out were moderated out of consideration to my inexperience.

However, imagine my delight when Mistress finally dismissed me with a "you did well". Such generosity to a bumbling first-timer !

I have thought about this experience a lot, and wonder if I could have done better. Perhaps I was too passive, not giving Mistress sufficient response. Did I look away too much, avoiding Her controlling gaze ? Should I have said something as She checked my nipples ? Perhaps I should have asked Her what attachments She was considering. And when She asked "sissy or whore ?", I could have asked Her what each would entail rather than, flustered, just picking sissy. I wonder how the session would have played out with the other choice ?

TONY DEC24

I have purchased some golden juice from the Mistress, I would recommend this service from the Mistress She delivers a fantastic juice which tastes of her and will also show your obedience to her.I will be ordering more in the future.

SISSY FIFI NOV24

I had another wonderful two hour session with Mistress a few weeks ago. Upon arrival I assumed my position on all fours. Mistress was wearing a short black PVC dress and black thigh-high boots. Mistress knows PVC is something I love and I was very fortunate Mistress treated me to this view. I was then told to crawl on all fours upstairs behind Mistress. I was told not to look up her dress. I couldn't resist though - her bottom looked amazing in the thing she had on. She noticed this and said I would pay for this indiscretion.

I was then dressed in red panties, a red bra, and holdups with a pink laced trim. A red mesh dress was added to finish off the look. It felt amazing, and I could feel myself twitching in the panties. Mistress added a pair of nipple clamps and tucked them in my bra for safe keeping.

The session was focussed around an activity we both enjoy - Ballbusting. We set a target of 100+ kicks in my balls for the session. Mistress administered these in batches of 10 - her black boots hurt a lot, and Mistress varied the strength of the kicks. She interspersed the batches of 10's with boot worship, and tie and tease.

I managed to take 101 kicks. Mistress said she was very pleased with this.

I thoroughly enjoyed the session, as Mistress loves to kick slaves in the balls.

Nadine SEP 23

"You are strapped down, your smarting backside receives yet another stinging blow, and, as you flinch, there is a delightful lady like giggle.

To some, this may seem out of keeping, but Mistress enjoys her work and takes pleasure from providing you the suffering and control you crave.

Personally, I find this adds to my satisfaction. A session can become more than a monatary transaction to satisfy your own needs. Treat Mistress Femme Fatale with respect and sessions can be fun. Not simply fulfilling on a base level but an enjoyable, surprisingly, shared experience.

This is Mistress Femme Fatales' unique gift; making you feel cared for and looked after, all whilst you are being humiliated and abused.

Nadine x"

Sissy PAULA SEP24

Have had another thoroughly enjoyable session with Mistress, who is always firm but fair. Mistress has taken me on a wonderful voyage of discovery over recent times gradually pushing my boundaries but never going too far. I am now Mistress's Bitch! Also, a big thank you to Miss Rosy for her role in the session. Back in a few days for more!

New to the scene?

If you are new discovering your kinks and fetishes, I am the right Dominatrix for you, you may find my maturity and softer approach more appealing but always bear in mind your Mistress will push your limits.

As seen on TV on 5STAR & CHANNEL 5

"ADULTS ONLY MEET THE SEX SLAVES"

You can watch your Mistress over and over again online! 🤩

The 5STAR, BDSM documentary was on TV many times & is  going to be available for many moons to come!

Where to find your Mistress

PORTSMOUTH - PETERSFIELD - United Kingdom

© 2026 Mistress Femme Fatale. All rights reserved.

The Frisson Sensual Playroom
Near Petersfield
NOW OPEN

Featuring:

Sensual Room for indulgence & photoshoot/content creation

A Lush Outdoor space for some play time under the sky or photoshoot

Naughty Dog shed

Booking required with 50% deposit

+44 7488391481

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